Marriage

Recently more tots of marriage starts creeping in on me... wondering how we can deal with it.

Starts w the most practical of all things, we spoke bout finance,  but it's a tough game esp for him now, one who's studying. One whom has yet to step into the working world n yet he gotta visualise how he has to make it work.
It's tough, so by not wanting to give him pressure, I did my "window shopping" finding out more how can we do, n planning ahead for our future to ease the worries.
However, it backfired. For a guy, it seems the opposite. It became a pressure as it seems the girl was eager n the guy cldnt promise anything. And tt made him stress.

Girls being girls, we see this as lack of planning n avoiding issues. This lead to lower sense of security, in financial as well as emotionally. Wondering if this is the man for her?

But girls... We shld really put ourselves in their shoes. All he feels is stress... N tts not what u want. So be the great lady, be smart abt it, n not talk abt marriage when he's less than ready. It's just not time. Give peace to ur heart.

Guys... take out ur time n effort to understand what ur ladies need, this will then show love. This article says it all, and I wonder how much can a guy understand it?
But this is the actual truth of what ur lady wld need,  and it'll be proven by the many comments below. http://marriagemissions.com/what-every-husband-should-know-about-his-wife/

In simplicity, if a guy takes the time to read the link n internalise the meanings, it's another level of loving ur partner.
N if u don't,  once again it'll show her tt u don't love her enough. Period.